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That Girl Summer is for You
In a world that often tells women they are not enough, That Girl Summer is intentionally affirming and restorative, seeking to remind women of their inherent worth and beauty. It's a time to embrace who we are, flaws and all, and to treat ourselves with the kindness and compassion we deserve.
Sensory Connections in Romantic Relationships
Sensory experiences play a crucial role in deepening the connection in romantic relationships. By engaging our senses and being present in these moments, we can create a deeper, more meaningful bond with our partners.
Tips For Discussing Politics with Family
As the election approaches, polarization and political tension is at an all time high. People are impacted by the political context of their lives, no matter what political affiliation they identify with.
Since political figures and government systems play such an important part in decision making for our country, it’s normal for people to have political preferences that reflect their values and beliefs.
3 Myths About Couples Therapy
There are a lot of myths we hear about relationships in couples therapy, but here are 3 of the most common that we would like to address:
Breathing Techniques to Reduce Stress
There are tons of breathe work exercises to help soothe us when we’re feeling stressed. Here are 2 breathing methods for you to try now!
This Makes or Breaks a Relationship
According to relationship expert John Gottman, one of the secrets to relationship success is “turning towards your partner” by making and receiving ‘bids’ for connection.
What are bids?
The Importance of Compatibility
Being compatible with our partners plays a big part in relationship satisfaction.
Compatibility in relationships is determined by having similar views and opinions on the important matters in your life, with the ability to accept one another and tolerate the differences In a functional way.
We all have differences, but incompatibility occurs when their differences prevent the couple from living harmoniously, together.
Why is it important?
5 Lessons To Teach Kids About Emotions
What can you teach your young kids about their emotions?
Is Your Smartphone Making You Stressed?
Why should we be rethinking our smart phone usage?
Well, lower smart phone usage can help improve your relationships, productivity, mental and physical health, just to start.
An increasing body of evidence suggests that the time we spend on our smartphones is interfering with our sleep, self-esteem, relationships, memory, attention spans, creativity, productivity and problem-solving and decision-making skills.
Self Care Check in: How are You Feeling Today?
There’s a reason that body language is such a big part of communication. We often make assumptions about how a person feels based on their body language.
You might perk up if your loved one energetically runs into the room. You might worry if a coworker skips their morning coffee and stands at the printer with slumped shoulders and eyes gazed towards the floor.
How to Make a Truce in Chore Wars
Do you ever find yourself in “chore wars” or conflict about household responsibilities with your partner? Eve Rods, author of ‘Fair Play’, helps examine how certain ways of thinking about time can keep couples stuck in unbalanced and ineffective cycles of communication and relationship dissatisfaction.
How to Set Tech Boundaries with Your Kids
Here are some helpful guidelines to keep in mind when your family establishes healthy boundaries with their tech like smartphones, computers, video games, etc. Every family is different so it’s important to create a plan that works for your family and specific circumstance.
This list was inspired by healthykids.org
8 Signs You Need Stronger Boundaries
You are allowed to set limits on your time and energy. This is how you create a meaningful existence for yourself.
*Gentle reminder to review and set boundaries
Why Does My Therapist Ask Me About My Childhood?
In therapy, we may ask clients to describe aspects of their childhood. “I had a normal childhood” or “it was fine.”
It takes some time before we uncover what “good” and “fine” truly means.We all know that our parents usually tried the best they could with what they had. There could be tons of great memories with your parents. Additionally, you can probably recall some stressors, too.
Stress Management 101
1. Grounding Techniques: 5 senses exercise and breathing.
2. Self Expression: Writing, art, journaling, writing a letter, creative activities
3. Healthy connections with others: setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, seeing friends, calling a loved one
4. Exercise: walking, dancing, biking, swimming.
5. Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Tense one muscle at a time for 10-20 seconds each. You can start in your feet and work your way up.
6. Yoga
Why Do People Choose Therapy?
Why therapy?
There tends to be a lot of confusion around therapy. Some people think that when they seek therapy, they’ll get advice or a solution to their problems, when that’s not the case.In therapy, you ARE solving your own problems. Therapists are trained to ask questions that help you explore what YOU want; being the healthy soundboard that advocates the best for your wellbeing.
Nedra Tawwab gives timeless relationship tips for healthier lives
Nedra Tawwab is a truly phenomenal therapist, philanthropist, and expert in the mental health field. It was so exciting to hear her thoughts on love and relationships. I highly suggest watching and following her on Instagram. I jotted some key takeaways below that may help you right now!
5 Ways to Lighten Your Mental Load Today
1. Focus on sharing the management of the household. Clinical psychologist Lina Perl, Psy.D., recommends talking about it like this: “I feel uncomfortable delegating activities—it's a big job to be a manager. I'd rather we look at what needs to be done and decide together how to divide it up. Then I won't feel like I'm nagging everyone all the time.” (-mindbodygreen.com, 2019)
How Stressed Are You?
Some people may cope with stress more effectively and recover from stressful events more quickly than others. Why does it matter to know what kind of stress you're experiencing?
Overcoming “negative sentiment override”
The Gottman Institute suggests asking yourself: "Do I have a chip on my shoulder with my partner right now?" Are you dismissing positive or neutral statements and seeing them as negative? Do you go looking for sleights and are ready to be on the defensive? Do you physiologically get flooded by your partner easily? These are subtle signs you may be in negative sentiment override.